Elite Introductions International
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I signed up with Elite and chatted to a very charismatic Trudy, adept in the art of overpromising. I expected a personalised, professional matchmaking service. After paying thousands of dollars, I received only one poorly matched introduction and no… Read more
meaningful follow-up or communication. When I raised concerns, I was met with defensiveness and no accountability.
The service did not reflect the “high-touch” or “bespoke” experience they promote — just vague promises and no tangible results. Despite asking for a partial refund due to lack of delivery, I was flatly denied.
I would not recommend this service at all. Save your money — there are far more transparent and client-focused options out there.
Follow-up · I was met with arrogance, dismissiveness, and an outright refusal to refund any portion of the money I had paid—despite offering to fairly compensate for the minimal time they had actually invested. DO NOT under any circumstances pay a deposit or sign their terms. The single, poorly managed and utterly inadequate “date” arranged through this… Read more
A total [Content Removed] – EI promises much and delivers very little. I would not recommend wasting your time and money on this company who operate with no transparency. The sign up process is very persuasive and you are led to expect 6 quality matches within 6 months. The fine print in the contract allows for the membership to be extended for a defined period of time until… Read more
that number is met. This means the whole process could drag on for years. Most of my membership was spent waiting. The first match came quickly, then I had to wait over 3 months for the next, and the next… The Agency have every answer in the book about why it takes so long, but the bottom line is they have very few suitable men. The only paying male members I was introduced to were socially unusual, overweight and very disappointing. One of my Introductions had never paid or joined the Agency and told me they called him a lot and he thought they had very few men on their books. I was introduced to a man I was told was 58 and he was actually 62. Another had a [Content Removed]. The professionalism and communication was terrible. I contacted the ACCC twice as I was considering pursuing action about not receiving a service in a timely way. That would usually mean that another introduction would suddenly appear. My experience aligns with many of the other unfavourable reviews, and if you are genuine about wanting to date and find a partner then beware of the false hope these people peddle. I have nothing good to say about them.
In-depth reviews
Stellar service from a brilliant matchmaker – My second match with Elite Introductions resulted in a long-term relationship and a beautiful child. I can’t imagine a more solid endorsement that Trudy is great at what she does. Many years later I found myself single again and on a search for a new partner. Assuming that dating agencies are quite similar, a friend suggested I try another… Read more
recognised matchmaker. I thought I’d give it a try, I don’t know why after receiving such stellar service from Trudy the first time... I guess I felt a little shy about returning after my relationship ended. Seven months with this other ‘so called’ reputable agency and I had received but one phone call and one date, they rarely returned my calls. A disappointing waste of time and money. After so long without a match I realised that Trudy is truly the best at what she does and I rejoined Elite Introductions. Within two days she had matched me with an extremely lovely man. We really enjoyed our first date. I don’t know where this first match will lead but I can rest assured that I’m in the safest hands in the business. Trudy is professional, discreet and always keeps her word, I can’t recommend her highly enough. Give her a call, it will change your life!
Personal Service and Good Value for Money – I joined Elite after relocating here from the US. While I was going on dates, I wasn't finding "appropriate" people. As a busy professional, I chose not to spend my time swiping endlessly. Elite held an hour long face-to-face interview and got to know ME. The matches have been much more my kind of executive individuals with many things in common.… Read more
There are unique aspects to Elite including helpful emails with Date Suggestions, Communication Etiquette, etc. There is also Date Feedback so there is a tracking of how things went, plus/minus data so that future matches can be fine tuned. Admittedly, Elite is not the cheapest game in town and it doesn't try to be, which probably helps elevate the quality of individuals. I think the level of personalized service, organization and client caliber provides good value for money. The staff has always been exceedingly responsive, friendly and happy to answer questions. While I haven't found my perfect match quite yet, I'm confident in the process. I'm excited about my love life again! You've tried the rest, now try the Best. ;)
Impressed beyond my expectations – This year I bought myself a birthday gift, it was a meeting with Trudy at Elite Introductions, I had been recommended and with a complete fear of online dating Elite seemed like the perfect service for me. As a successful independent woman entrepreneur and very frequent international traveller, 10+ years divorced with adult and near adult… Read more
children, there was no denying I had a big void in my life, and that was a great partner. I had recently ended a difficult relationship and my confidence in meeting someone kind had been rocked, I had a broken wing. Trudy was incredible, thorough and professional. She understood me more than I understood myself and introduced me to really beautiful, kind and genuine like minded people just like me, looking for the same. I appreciate the considered approach Trudy has displayed, a few quality dates, not at all overwhelming and with men with genuine synergies. Less is more, quality is everything and patience will be rewarded and that is my experience of Elite. Trudy is meticulous in her craft, she is a professional, discrete and understanding, and above all, she has delivered as promised. My expectations have been more than met and I am liking my present, thank you so much Trudy. You are the match-making whisperer and I truly appreciate the patience, kindness and the meticulous way you have worked in restoring my confidence in finding love.
Positive reviews
The answer to a hectic life. Thank you Elite! – I decided to move forward with Elite after a series of bad dates on apps forced around a hectic life. The team at Elite were very supportive and the training videos and sessions with Lisa were quite helpful and reassuring. My first date was not really right for me but after some more feedback the next match was much closer to the type I was… Read more
looking for. From there, the next couple of dates were lovely and definitely compatible but it was just a matter of getting the chemistry right. My 4th date was amazing and has since grown into something genuine. The experience on the whole was great and I was happy to finally be dating men of that consistent calibre who were also looking for a long-term partner. Thanks Elite. Strongly recommended.
Exceptional professional matching service – After finding myself with the prospect of facing the daunting reality of the new age dating scene, I was lucky enough to cross paths with Trudy and Elite Introductions. Trudy has taken the time to get to know me in a caring and professional manner, and truly understand what I am looking for in a partner. This is reflected in the suggested… Read more
introductions thus far, in that they have far exceed my expectations.
As a busy professional, the exceptional professional matching service provided by Trudy is highly appreciated and recommended.
Wonderful service and introduction- well worth it for me! – Dating online has always been a challenge for me, both from a time perspective and also vast variety of types of people. Elite and Trudy were very perceptive to what I was looking for and able to discuss some possible matches and introduced me to a lovely lady that I have now started dating. The service is discreet and provides professionals, who… Read more
are short on time and very discerning, with a way to meet other similar people who value this and not wanting to waste time on endless meaningless first dates. The level of detail in understanding me, my likes and values, made it a more enjoyable process than hours of endless/mindless swiping and chats :) Would highly recommend Elite, worked for me and hope it does for you too. :)
Negative reviews
Disappointment – I joined in January of 2018. At my first and only meeting with [name removed] I was pretty much told that it would be easy for her to match me with someone. At first I had regular contact with her but after the first 3 months I had to chase. She was very difficult to get hold of and did not always return calls or emails. I had 2 face to face… Read more
matches and 2 phone matches. None of them met my criteria in any way. I was very disappointed. I asked for a refund however she dodged the question and gave me my final match who clearly was involved with someone else and not interested. After being advised my membership had expired, I was told that I would be considered for future matches however have heard absolutely nothing and do not expect to hear anything. I feel very misled. I would like to go to Fair Trading however am not sure how strong my case would be. Just very disappointed with something that was promoted as being easy and reliable.
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2.5 stars – This is written from the perspective of a female in her early 30s. It is a review of the service between Oct 2016 and July 2017. I was signed promptly and the service was friendly and polite at the first meeting. I did not hear about a match for two weeks and chased them up. About 5 weeks after signing I received my first match. Not exactly my… Read more
criteria (not university educated) but I was happy to give it a go. The date did not eventuate on his part.
A second match was received two weeks later although a date did not happen for a few weeks. He took one look at me and decided he did not like me.
Then I heard nothing for 6 months. After the second match I chased the matchmaker politely for a third match. I emailed her probably about fortnightly, generally got prompt responses back (except two went unanswered) half the responses indicated she was working on something. Then I started to give up and only emailed around monthly.
Out of the blue I received a third match in July 2017. However when I went to meet him, I find he does not match my hard criteria (was of a particular religious background). A 4th match was offered two weeks after this, he was 40 (technically over 40 by a few months) although did not meet my soft criteria (had a particular interest I did not like). I agreed to meet him anyway.
During the time I heard nothing, I was strongly tempted to take the service to Fair Trading. Whilst I still have my moments where I would still like to do so, I'm not sure I have as strong a case.
My experience is that men in the 30-40 bracket who use matchmaking services over other dating services are more idealistic. All four matches decided at a first meeting I did not meet their criteria without giving it more of a chance, which is disappointing.
It's really tricky dating as a woman in your 30s. The men know too that biological factors come into play. If you are a professional it's harder to meet somebody who is your equal on the whole. I found A Table For Six a good way to meet random (non matchmade) people who are likely to be at your level, and a lot cheaper too ($500 vs $5000).
At the end of the day, women will be willing to pay, just for the off chance of meeting somebody. Even if it's $5000 just for the opportunity of one date.
I would like to see Elite market better to the male market. I'm sure at the moment esp in the 30-40 age bracket, their income is mainly derived from women who aren't getting their money's worth.
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A major disappointment - the business is a shame – I paid the substantial amount of money and was very open about possible matches. Similar to other posts I was told on 2-3 occasions they had identified someone and nothing ever eventuated. After 6 months of no offer of a date I requested a refund. It was an 8 month process to get a refund and I found they continually were disrespectful. I… Read more
would not recommend this service.
May 17th, 2017 Update: Elite's business practices and values are unsatisfactory
I joined Elite Introductions and was not provided an introduction over a 6 month period. I requested a refund which the business agreed they would pay. However it took calls to Consumer Affairs and letters before a partial refund was paid. I took action with VCAT to obtain the remainder of my refund and to ensure others were aware of the manner in which Elite had conducted business in my situation. In my situation, the conduct and the values of this business were not aligned to reasonable business practices. I would urge others in a similar situation to take action against this business if you have not been treated with respect. The process and cost to take a claim to VCAT or NCAT is minimal (note: your claim should include the contract with Elite).
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Recent reviews
Very diligent – Trudy was very diligent in getting to know me and my preferences. After a very comprehensive set of interviews she has matched me with a gorgeous woman. After a few dates we are very excited about where this could lead. Thank you Team
A Superlative Matchmaking Experience – Having a very busy schedule and experienced less than satisfactory online dating sites, I have found Trudy and her team at Elite Introductions a superb way to cut through and meet very interesting, suited and lovely people. I've found that Trudy is a perceptive matchmaker who truly 'listens' to, and genuinely cares about, her clients. Overall the… Read more
'Elite' experience is a pleasure...descriptors that spring to mind about the service are professional, sophisticated, confidential and intimate - to choose only a few. I unreservedly recommend Trudy and her team.
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Trudy is a pro – I have a busy life and have found online dating time consuming and that I haven't met men that are similar to me, I found Elite Introductions online and Trudy has been great, she understood the sort of partner I want to meet and has introduced me to two professionals who were well suited to me, I am still in the dating phase but I am confident… Read more
that I will find my match through Trudy I would highly recommend her and I appreciate her level of confidentiality for her clients.
Amazing dating service...It actually works! Thanks Trudy and Team – After years of dealing with horrible dating platforms, I was referred to Trudy and her team at Elite Introductions via a work colleague. I found her service and overall attention to detail helped me find the perfect match. It's made the whole dating process a breathe of fresh air! I'm now exploring a relationship with an amazing lady :))
Definitely worth it – I have only recently engaged Elite and Trudy set up a fantastic first date for me - in fact, the best first date I have ever enjoyed. As I am a busy professional, Elite is exactly what I have been looking for and it is well worth the investment. This first date alone has completely transformed what my view of dating is (or should be). Trudy puts a… Read more
lot of thought and effort into setting up a match and it shows in the fact that I thoroughly enjoyed the time I spent on the date. Irrespective of how things progress from here, I know that my time is not being wasted when I go on a date to meet a new person and that there is a lot of thinking behind the matchmaking. Trudy is an absolute professional and I thoroughly recommend Elite.
This Service is for Successful Women looking for Love – I wish I joined Elite years ago. Trudy is very professional in what she does. From the moment I meet her, I knew I was in the best hands for finding a quality partner. The first introduction exceeded my expectations but unfortunately it didn’t work out. Trudy went to work and within a week, which took me by surprise, she had found me a second… Read more
match. If you are reading this review and are a strong, driven, successful women and over dating men that don’t have their life balance in order. Then Elite is for you!!! Trudy, I can not thank you enough for giving me the confidence that there are men out there that want strong successful women. I know you will find me my perfect Match!!!
Staying on course in my search for love – In the middle of this pandemic, the last thing I wanted was to have to resort to online dating but I was determined to stay on course in my search for love. Elite are still organising matches and dates within the restrictions and the two video dates I’ve had so far have been with men who are pretty much exactly what I asked for. The second was… Read more
with Matt and we prepared a meal online and shared cooking tips. We both got a little competitive pretending we were MKR contestants. It was hilarious. This week we’re going for a run together which we both love to do. One of the many reasons Trudy matched us. Thank you Trudy for your diligent screening process, cutting through all the trash and putting me only with the type of people really worth considering as a true life companion.
Best decision, great members, very happy! – I joined Elite Introductions for the first time two years ago. I was hesitant that the calibre of people I was looking for were actually out there but I was really impressed with my first date. It didn't go any further but my confidence was definitely boosted. The second man I met through Elite became a one year relationship which Trudy guided me… Read more
with. After another year break and some unimpressive app dates, I knew who to call once I was really ready to try again. Amazingly, Trudy came through once more. Jake is amazing and we are both really excited as to where this is leading. I hope Jake means I never again need to call Trudy to find someone but for any executive ready for a life partner, I would look nowhere else!
Great helper to find the life partner – I moved to Sydney into my 20s, and since then had a string of busy executive jobs. As I started focussing on the relationships into my 30s, I found most friends married and online apps being the main option. This can feel like a second job, with time spent on swiping, dates being cancelled, and bad matches. Trudy is great at setting up… Read more
introductions with high quality potential partners who I would not have likely met in real life. There are no guarantees of a spark, but at the very least every date will be memorable with much in common!
Met some lovely people on this service – As the owner of a company in advertising, I find it very difficult to allocate the time I would like to finding the right person. Ironic really in that I know the importance of advertising others and my own company but give little time to advertising myself. :D I also know the importance of having someone else help see the best and share insights… Read more
that you just might miss with eyes on yourself. Enter Elite Introductions. Trudy is no nonsense and to the point, but interested in me, and has connected me with some lovely ladies as promised.
If your life is too busy to spend the time on yourself that you do elsewhere (ironic or not:), or you just want some help from an objective someone to help, give Trudy a call.
No love yet but meet with some lovely people on this service
How to make a challenging process smarter! – As a busy professional I found Trudy and her thoughtfully curated and matched introductions invaluable. The process of finding compatible and companionable significant others can be exhausting and disheartening and will always take time! Trudy personally engages in this process with you and I found her so caring, humorous, encouraging and… Read more
supportive as each step unfolded. While it is entirely up to the couple to make what they will of the introductions, I looked forward to and thoroughly enjoyed meeting the fascinating and fabulous gentlemen that i I believe only Trudy has at her fingertips! Be patient and positive and there is much joy to be had! Great conversations, fascinating dates and maybe a special long term relationship may ensue!
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A tailored solution for busy executives to find their 'perfect' match! – After trying various other options, I came across Elite as a Google search result for tailored executive matchmaking services. Looking through their website, there were testimonials and AFR article extracts that seem to validate their credentials and prompted me to sign up. Elite invests a lot of time and efforts in understanding you as a person… Read more
by way of face to face interview and storing all necessary information in their database. For every date, I get a call from Trudy with a comprehensive description of the person and then there is a follow up discussions to work through the next steps. I started this process early last year and then came across a very busy patch at work so put it on 'hold'. I have just recommenced with a fresh start this year. Fingers crossed!
I'm The Luckiest Man – I joined Elite as I was serious about finding a life partner and wasn't meeting the right kind of girls on the apps. My first few dates with Elite were with really lovely girls, they were intelligent, fun and really nice but things didnt work out. Then I had a good chat with Trudy and she gave me some feedback that really changed my mindset and… Read more
the next person she introduced me to is now my girlfriend. We've been together for about six months now and she is kind,, caring, driven and absolutely gorgeous, I'm the luckiets man! She met my family, they love her and we have just returned from a family ski trip at my sister's place in the States. I can't thank Trudy enough.
Such wonderful caring matchmakers! – Elite Introductions International are an extremely professional and caring service. I felt they had a very good understanding of what I was looking for and delivered. My first date was with an intelligent, funny lovely man. Elite Introductions were accessible, and very informative re what to expect. It’s been a thoroughly enjoyable experience.
Let the professionals find you your match! Great service! – I have tried the online dating thing for a while, and beside the fact that it felt like having a second job, I also wasn't getting anywhere. That's when I was recommended to join Elite Introductions by a friend who had success in finding his match through their service. Trudy took the time to get to know the real me and what I was looking for! I… Read more
was finally excited about dating again! After every date, I had the opportunity to give Trudy feedback and talk through my thoughts. She's always available to give great advice, it's like having your best friend, but with a professional degree on the subject ;) And even though I haven't found my match yet, I feel confident that he's right around the corner. Looking forward to my next introduction! Stop wasting your time on swiping and endless chats. Let the professionals find you your match!
The right people – I suspect like a lot of people, I had been struggling with online dating and trying to sift through those who would be most compatible with me. My experience of working with Trudy has been so different. Trudy made the effort to really get to understand me and people I have met through her have been delightful. I thoroughly recommend her service.
Excellent – A few years ago, at the Ivy Sydney, Trudy was part of a function where she gave an impressive speech about what she does, what motivates her and how she helps matching likeminded professionals. At the time I was in a relationship and didn't require any assistance. After my relationship ended I joined dating apps and was disappointed to find out… Read more
the people on the apps are not who you think they are plus they are not on the same page as you. I remembered Trudy's speech and reached out. From a perspective of a female who just turned 30, I must say everything has been nothing but excellent. If you are unsure about this service, I can ensure you Trudy is a true professional. She will always provide you with timelines in respect of finding you a date, who she has spoken to and when someone is reaching out to you. So far I have had numerous dates and couldn't be happier to have met such likeminded people already! Thank you for such a great experience :)
5 stars & I am over the moon! – Trudy, thank you for providing a valuable and unique match making service. I was hesitant to use such a service in the beginning but I have benefited greatly from taking the plunge. You have introduced me to high calibre gentlemen. And...I have found a special connection with an amazing man! You have assisted in enhancing my life and I am most grateful for your sensitive and professional approach.
Perfect service – From the moment I began talking to Trudy I felt at ease about the process and service that she offers which I see as being very unique in the current world of social media/internet. Trudy is very detailed and exceptionally professional making you feel comfortable and excited about enjoying the process of potentially meeting your match. In the… Read more
short time I have been part of the service I have already been contacted about potential matches and look forward to meeting the next one that had been organised. I would highly recommend this service to anyone serious about meeting a partner with similar values and wanting to get excited about dating again... it shouldn't be a swipe right nor a chore!
Professional Service - Recommended – Not being one for the whole internet dating scene, I have found the services of Elite to be just to my satisfaction for discretion and professional service. I found the briefing process by Trudy to be very thorough and the matching process generally addressed my needs. I am quietly confident that the initial selection process and matching by… Read more
Elite will turn out for very positive for me. To be recommended for those looking for a personal service, a little guidance and some friendly help along the pathway of finding a new partner.
Women, beware the promises – I would never post a negative review about a dating agency simply because I didn't find a mate. From other reviews this service works for some people - but beware those of you, mostly women I suspect, for whom this is a con. You will be signed up by an impressive communicator on the promise of a date, for which attractive details will be provided,… Read more
and which in my case never materialised, not even once. I can understand if a suitable match isn't available - fair enough - but in my case I was strung along for over a year with vague promises which were repeatedly broken. When I finally pointed this out to them they promised to refund my fee - and I was then strung along for more months before I realised this was yet another broken promise. Avoid this service, it is simply dishonest. I suspect they have far more women than men on their books.
Elite – I can understand the polarised views on this site for Elite - for those who found a partner, praise comes easily; for those not yet successful, I can understand unhappiness. No dating service can guarantee you will find your match. Inevitably, that comes down to the two people involved. But a good introduction service can do just that - help with… Read more
finding and introducing you to a potential partner. And on this, I cannot fault the service Elite provided. As a busy man, I found Trudy's service invaluable. I was introduced to a number of successful, professional women and I did not have one bad match or poor date (I trust they felt the same!). There was always a second date at the least. Though these did not lead to an eventual long-term relationship, that is life, and not the fault of Elite.
And then I was introduced to my current partner through Elite....and we remain together almost three years later! I am truly grateful to Elite for the introduction and service provided. We make our own way in life....but some outside expert guidance certainly helps along the way! :)
Elite Introduction is 5 Star! – Getting back into the dating world is hard enough, finding the perfect partner seems unlikely. After meeting Trudy at Elite Introduction I was so impressed with her business model and the professional way she conducted the meeting I knew straight away this was the way forward for me. Trudy immediately made me feel so comfortable and answered every… Read more
question I had. Elite Introductions is a 5 Star business. Every contact I had with Trudy was amazing. I would not hesitate to recommend to anyone. Put your love life in their hands they will not disappoint.
This is Perfect! – "Elite Introductions know what they are doing. I have been introduced to some very cool women. They are also prompt to respond and eager to deliver. They make the process fun and they have really tried to get who I am and match me accordingly. I am confident I will be introduced to my partner by this agency"
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